No, I have no desire to shop at "Gross-tedes" if indeed it's "gross" as you refer to it, and that one particual store is to the best of my knowledge not representative of the overall quality of their products. Nor do I have an issue with Whole Foods in general- I just don't want to see 18 of them sprinkled around the city, at the expense of smaller, local businesses as Denton puts it.
We already have Fresh Direct offering non-interactive shopping ( God forbid anyone should shop next to another human being, or even worse, strike up a conversation ) competing for business against places like Fairway, Balducci's, Zabar's, etc. Those are the places that give this city a stamp of individuality, that make it different than other cities, or perhaps more appropriately in this context the "burbs".
No one that I know actively seeks out "$4 apples", and I certainly don't. What I want to see is progress and added conveniences, selection and affordability, but if that comes at the expense of creating a "pretense of NYC", than I say forget it.
It's just interesting that for something like the past 40-50 years, no one made a stink about Gristedes or other upscale smaller businesses that sold their goods at a premium price, but now that the chain conglomerates have arrived, all of a sudden it's become an issue.
Change is inevitable, and you can always count on someone, somwhere, having objections to it. What doesn't have to be inevitable, is gratuitious changes that are happening here. Case in point- is it really neccesary or appropriate to have a Bed, Bath, and Beyond directly across the street from Lincoln Center? I don't know about anyone else, but when I exit the Metropolitan Opera House, I can't imagine seeing anything more offensive than that.
This will not stop, and it will continue to increase, unless Commercial Real Estate Corporations use more discretion, and show some respect for the character of NYC neighborhoods. Wishing that would happen is something along the lines of waiting for pigs to fly- we all know how likely that is.
Sorry for the long posting.